This week, our community suffered a terrible tragedy with the untimely petira of Moshe Simcha Moskowitz.  He was a boy loved by all who knew him, who came from a special family adored by everyone, particularly in the Talmudical Academy community.

This tragedy leaves us all in a state of shock.  The Torah teaches that when faced with the most difficult of heartbreaks and misfortune, the loss of his own two sons, וידם אהרן, Aharon Hakohen was silent.  There were no words which could capture the depth of his emotion, to capture the intense feeling of loss and pain in that awful moment. 

Similarly, when a terrible tragedy strikes so close to home, there are really no suitable words with which to express ourselves. There are no words that truly express the depth of emotion and pain we all feel.

However, we need to find some way of dealing with the pain, to offer comfort to those suffering, to help us all move forward in the face of this difficulty.  In the Parshios we are currently reading, we read of Yaakov Avinu, who was no stranger to loss and suffering.  He was pursued by his brother Esav, separated from his beloved son Yosef, suffered the untimely death of Rachel, and the capture of his daughter Dena.  His life was one of darkness and challenge.   But the lesson of Yaakov Avinu is that he kept looking straight ahead, always picked himself up, and found the strength to keep moving ahead.  During his life which was compared to night, he composed the tefilla of maariv.

The Navi Micha (7:8) taught כִּ֥י נָפַ֖לְתִּי קָ֑מְתִּי כִּֽי־אֵשֵׁ֣ב בַּחֹ֔שֶׁךְ ה' א֥וֹר לִֽי . . .

For I have fallen, but I will get up; When I sit in darkness, Hashem is my light" (Micha 7:8).

Micha is teaching us that in times of confusion and darkness, we must find the strength to pick ourselves up and turn to God for light.

What is that light?  It is the illumination of the fact that as long as we are alive, we are here for a purpose: to perfect ourselves and the world.

At the end of his life, Yaakov declares האלקים הרועה אותי, God is my shepherd.  His connection to God, his realization that God is always watching us and directing us, helped him move forward.  While Yaakov would never comprehend the reason for his suffering, his connection to Hashem in those dark times helped him continue to live, continue to invest in his children and community…and ultimately ensure that there would be the next generation of Jewish people.

In times of tragedy, in times of darkness, we too must find ways to bring more light into this world.  By turning to God, and helping each other, we remind ourselves of what is really important in life.  We must endeavor during dark times to strengthen our bonds of spirituality and friendship, and daven together for the fulfillment of a promise of a day that לילה כיום יאיר, that God’s presence will fill this dark night with light and warmth and God will end all suffering ובלע המות לנצח ומחה ה' אלקים דמעה מעל כל פנים.

We must continue to offer our heartfelt prayers of comfort to the entire Moskowitz family and our sincere prayers of refuah shleima for Mrs Moskowitz תמר עדינה בת קינא שולמית, and the ultimate geula shleima…במהרה בימינו אמן.