Watch Inspiration for the Nation: Let’s Talk About the Orthodox Singles Struggle with Baltimore's Rivka Heisler (Video)
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Meet Rivka Heisler. She's one of 12 kids. Has a great career in the healthcare space and she currently lives in Baltimore. She happens to be single. In this week's episode, Rivka discusses the challenge of "being single". The worst things people can say. And an insight into the proper way to go about supporting someone who hasn't yet met their partner.
Watch Inspiration for the Nation: Let’s Talk About the Orthodox Singles Struggle with Baltimore's Rivka Heisler (Photo Credit: Avi Dear)
Meet Rivka Heisler. She's one of 12 kids. Has a great career in the healthcare space and she currently lives in Baltimore. She happens to be single. In this week's episode, Rivka discusses the challenge of "being single". The worst things people can say. And an insight into the proper way to go about supporting someone who hasn't yet met their partner.
Baltimore, MD – October 26, 2025 – At a Melava Malka hosted last night in the home of the Khaver family, the Koidenover Rebbe delivered stirring divrei chizuk on the deep spiritual significance of the Melava Malka meal.
The Rebbe spoke about how this cherished minhag serves as a bridge between two worlds — preserving the kedusha of Shabbos while easing the soul’s transition back into the weekday rhythm. “A Jew can ascend to unimaginable spiritual heights on Shabbos,” he explained, “and without the soft landing provided by Melava Malka, the shift back to the ordinary could feel jarring to both body and spirit.”
He emphasized that this fourth Shabbos seudah isn’t merely a farewell meal — it’s a continuation of holiness, a de...
Baltimore, MD – Oct. 24, 2025 – BJL regrets to inform the community of the petirah of Chaya Statman, a’h, wife of Yossi Statman mother of Yanky (Aliza) Statman, Yitzy (Rebecca) Statman, Shira (Avi) Lipman and sister of David (Renee) Bienenstock.Shiva will be observed at 2309 Whitley Road, Baltimore, MD 21209 and David Bienenstock at 6607 Greenspring Ave, Balto., MD 212092309 Whitely:Shacharis: Sunday: 8:00 am / Mincha/Maariv 6:00PMShacharis: Monday - Wednesday: 7:00 am / Mincha/Maariv 6:00PMShacharis Thursday - 7:00 am Please no visitors between: 12:00 pm - 3:00 pm and after 9:00 pm*******6607 Greenspring AveMincha/Maariv (Plag) Sunday 4:50 pm Mincha/Maariv (Shkia) Monday - Wednesday 5:55 pm Please no visitors between 1...
Baltimore, MD – Oct. 21, 2025 – BJL regrets to inform the community of the petirah of Shlomo Aryeh Ribakow, z'l, son of Mr. and Mrs. Larry Ribakow, and brother of Dovid Ribakow, Yehoshua Ribakow, Yaakov Ribakow, Daniel Ribakow, Aaron Ribakow and Moshe Ribakow, Ilana (Chesky) Finkelstein, Adina (Chezky) Kosman, and Shira Ribakow.Shiva will be observed at 3316 Olympia Ave., Baltimore, MD 21215 until Tuesday morning, Oct. 28.
Minyanim:
Shacharis (Fri., Sun., Mon. & Tue.) - 7:45am
Mincha Erev Shabbos - 3:30pm
Maariv Motzei Shabbos - 7:05pm
Mincha (Sun. & Mon.) - 5:00pm
Maariv (Sun. & Mon.) - 8:00pm
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Baltimore, MD - Oct. 26, 2025 - Excitement and ruach filled the halls of TA this morning, as our Mesivta and 8th grade warmly welcomed TA’s new Kollel to begin their zman—with singing, dancing, and true kavod haTorah. Led by Rabbi Yerucham Rothstein, along with Rabbi Yaakov Yisroel Hofman, Rabbi Yaakov Perl, and Rabbi Yehuda Roberts, this new initiative marks a major step forward in strengthening limud haTorah and ruchniyus throughout our Yeshiva. The energy and simchas haTorah on display were a beautiful reflection of what TA is all about!
Photo Credit: Rabbi Elchonon Ciment
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Baltimore, MD – Oct. 25, 2025 – BJL regrets to inform the community of the petirah of Rabbi AvinoamYaakov Schleifer, z’l, husband of Sarah, father of Toby (Zevy) Landau, Chaim Yehudah Schleifer, Eliyahu (Faigy) Schleifer, Moshe (Chana Rivka) Schleifer, Esty (Duvid) Weisstein, Shlome Schleifer, Yessuchar Schleifer, Mirel Schleifer, Devoire Schleifer, Perel Schleifer, and Yitzchok Dovid Schleifer.
The levayah will be held tomorrow morning, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2025 at 8:45AM at Levinson’s
The kevurah will take place in Eretz Yisrael
Shiva details to follow
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Baltimore, MD – Oct. 25, 2025 - The Jewish Uniformed Service Association of Maryland–Chabad (JUSA) has announced the launch of its Federal Law Enforcement & Military Emergency Fund to assist Federal Law Enforcement officers and Military service members affected by the ongoing federal government shutdown.As the shutdown continues, many Federal Law Enforcement officers and Military personnel continue to serve on the front lines protecting communities and defending the nation all while facing delayed paychecks. The JUSA Emergency Fund provides interest-free loans to help relieve the immediate financial strain on these dedicated men and women.This initiative builds on the success of JUSA’s original Federal Law Enforcement Emergency Fund during the 2019 government shutdown...
During the Second Temple, the Greek empire reigned (over Israel),1 and they (the Greeks) passed decrees against the Jews and (tried) to erase their religion, and did not allow them to carry out Torah (study) or the commandments. They put their hands on their property and their daughters. They entered the Temple, destroyed and made the pure unclean. The Jews were in great distress because of them and were much oppressed, until the G-d of their fathers had mercy on them, delivering them from their hands and saving them. Then overcame, the sons of the Hasmonean High Priest, (the Greeks) and killed them and saved the Jews from their hands. They appointed a king from the Priests, and the kingdom of Israel was restored for more than 200 years until the destruction of (the) second (Temple). When the Jews overcame their enemies and destroyed them, it was the 25th of Kislev2 when they entered the Sanctuary (inner room) and did not find pure (olive) oil in the Temple, except one jar sealed with seal of the High Priest, and it did not contain enough to light except for one day only. But they lit from it the lamps of the Menorah3 for eight days, until they could crush olives and produce a (new quantity) of pure oil. For these reasons, decreed the Sages of that generation that these eight days that begin on the 25th Kislev, will be days of joy and praise. One lights on them lamps at evening at the entrance to the houses, every evening of the eight nights to show off and demonstrate the miracle. These days are called ''Hanukah'' that is to say ''they rested'' (chanu) on the ''25'' ('th of the month) because on the 25th they rested from their enemies. and also because of those days they (re)-dedicated the house (Temple) which their foes had defiled. Also some say that it is a commandment to increase slightly the festive meals on Hanukah. Another reason is because the work of (building) the Sanctuary (in the desert) was completed in these days. One should tell one's children the story of the miracles that were done for our fore-fathers in those days, (see Josephus) However, these meals are not considered as part of the commandment unless one says at the meal songs of praise. One should increase charity in these Hanukah days, for this can help mend any defects in our souls. This charity, should be given particularly to poor Torah scholars. (KSA 139:1) 1) 352 BCE until 70 CE 2) 139 BCE 3) The Menorah was made of gold and had seven branches.
Moshe is more beloved (chaviv) than Noach; Noach, after having been called an ish tzaddik (6:19), was called ish adama (9:20), while Moshe,[ by contrast,] after having been called ish mitzri (Shemos 2:19), was called ish HaElokim (Devarim 33:1) (Breishis Raba 36:3).
The Meshech Chochma (Breishis 9:20) explains that there are two ways to serve Hashem. One way is to serve Hashem exclusively, in isolation (misbodeid). Another is one who is involved in the needs of the community, who sacrificed himself for the sake of the klal and renounced (was mafkir) his soul for them.
Logically, one would think that the first type will ascend higher and higher, and the second will descend from his level, as is recorded in the medr...
Senior Hamas official Moussa Abu Marzouk has claimed that returning the bodies of the remaining 13 deceased hostages could take "months."
In an interview with Al Jazeera, Abu Marzouk stated: “I have said in the past that there will be a problem regarding the deceased hostages, because it is difficult to hand them all over and hard to locate them all at once. This won’t take weeks - it could take months.”
He added, “It could be that we won’t be able to find some of the deceased hostages. We say clearly: We have no deceased hostages that we are able to hand over.”
Earlier this month, Abu Marzouk claimed that the terror group would take "months" to locate all the hostages, living and dead alike. However, all 20 living hostages were release...
Rabbi Dovid Fink - Parshas Noach: The Generation Gap
In the first Pasuk of Parshas Noach, there is a Rashi which calls out for deeper analysis and explanation. The famous Rashi, “B’Dorosav”, quotes conflicting opinions in Chazal as to what the pasuk means when it says that Noach was a Tzadik “in his generation”. One opinion is that Noach was a complete Tzadik. The other view is that Noach was only a Tzadik “B’Dorosav” – when compared to the Reshaim of his generation. This derogatory description even goes so far as to say “Had Noach lived in Avraham’s Dor, Lo Nechshav Klum- he wouldn’t have been recognized as an outstanding individual”. This Rashi raises several difficult issues.
First, it is unusual for Chazal to have a disagreement about a fact. Typically when there is an argument in Chazal, they are arguing over an interpretation or theory, not a fact. Simply put, was Noach a Tzadik or wasn’t he? He certainly lived long enough and knew enough people after the Mabul that a legitimate insight into his character could have been obtained. Moreover, what does it mean when it posits, “Had he lived in Avrahams Dor he would not have been anything outstanding”? Noach did live in Avrahams Dor. Noach was born in the year 1056 and died in the year 2006 (950 years). Avraham was born in the year 1948 and died in 2123 (175 years). Noach and Avraham lived together for 58 years!!
Indeed, there is a Medrash which details a specific meeting which took place between Noach and Avraham, when they both tried to dissuade Nimrod from building the Migdal, the Tower. The Medrash relates that Noach spoke to Nimrod and his followers and warned them of the consequences of their actions, that he himself had witnessed and survived the Mabul. No one took note of Noach’s warnings. When Avraham delivered the same admonition regarding the misplaced idea of rebelling against Hashem, people very much took note. Nimrod was so concerned about the affect Avraham was having that he ordered Avraham be thrown into the Kivshun. How could Chazal ask “Had Noach lived in Avraham’s Dor”?
In answering these questions, it may be helpful to pose one more. If Noach wasn’t anything special, he was just superior to the Reshaim of his generation, then why save him? Why go through the whole Tayva process with animals and rain etc.? Why not destroy the world, start over with a new “Adam” and have a Mesorah that the first world was destroyed because of Rishus? Why save mediocrity?
It seems that the proper explanation to all these questions is that there was no factual disagreement among Chazal. Both opinions are in reality saying the same thing. In truth, Noach’s accomplishments for his lifetime pale in comparison to Avraham’s. In the whole time he was building the Tayva, Noach could not bring anyone to repent or follow him. Avraham by contrast was “M’Karev” thousands to the belief in a single deity. The Medrash we cited above makes this comparison rather poignantly. No one listened to Noach when he was warning them about the Migdal. They were however listening to Avraham. What was special about Noach was not the quantitative accomplishments of his lifetime, rather it was the quality of being better than everyone else around him.
We all can look around for inspiration from many sources. We can find someone who does more Chesed, learns more Torah, honors there parents more appropriately etc. Noach had no such role models. He was the best at everything – in his Dor. There was not a single Midah which Noach did not epitomize in his Dor. Being the best in his Dor may not have allowed him to accomplish what Avraham did but if he had been born in Avraham’s Dor, if he had an Avraham to learn from, he would have been even greater than Avraham. That is precisely the Midah that Hashem was saving in the Mabul, the Midah of being able to rise above everyone around him.
This is consistent with the Rambam which states that we should have every Midah to a moderate degree, not too much and not too little. Even jealousy can be used positively if we envy someone else’s Midos Tovos or Torah knowledge and are inspired to be better. Noach exemplified how to look at everyone else’s good points and strive to meet that standard. That Midah allowed him to be considered a Tzaddik. May we be Zoche to learn the Midah of Noach and constantly strive to be better. May we use this Midah to emulate those representing true Torah values.
US President Donald Trump on Saturday night called on the Hamas terror group to immediately return the bodies of deceased hostages.
"We have a very strong PEACE in the Middle East, and I believe it has a good chance of being EVERLASTING," Trump wrote. "Hamas is going to have to start returning the bodies of the deceased hostages, including two Americans, quickly, or the other Countries involved in this GREAT PEACE will take action."
He noted, "Some of the bodies are hard to reach, but others they can return now and, for some reason, they are not."
"Perhaps it has to do with their disarming, but when I said, 'Both sides would be treated fairly,' that only applies if they comply with their obligations. Let’s see what they do over the next 48 hours. I am watching this very ...
Baltimore, MD - Oct. 25, 2025 -The U.S Secret service removed 22 illegal skimming devices from Baltimore businesses this week, officials confirmed Friday.
Secret Service partnered with local law enforcement and state agencies to conduct an Electronic Transfer fraud and payment card skimming outreach operation in Baltimore on October 22 and 23.
Authorities went to 493 businesses - 3,000 point-of-sale terminals, gas pumps, and ATMS- and removed 22 illegal skimming devices, preventing a potential loss of about $22.9 million.
The U.S. Secret Service, and our law enforcement and state agency partners, remain committed to combatting EBT fraud and payment card skimming in Maryland and throughout the country,” said Brian McDonough, Special Agent in Charge of the U.S. Sec...
Jerusalem, Israel – October 24, 2025 – Israel will turn its clocks back one hour this Motzaei Shabbos, officially switching from Daylight Saving Time to Standard Time. As a result, Israel will now be six hours ahead of Baltimore until Baltimore adjusts its own clocks next Motzaei Shabbos.
At 2:00 a.m. on Sunday, October 26, clocks across Israel will move back to 1:00 a.m., bringing earlier sunsets and shorter days as the country enters the winter season.
Baltimore, MD - Oct. 23, 2025 - The sudden, tragic passing of Rabbi Moshe Hauer, z"l, has left a deep and painful void in the Baltimore Jewish community and far beyond. While much will rightly be written about his international influence and brilliant leadership within the Orthodox Union, I wish to reflect on the Rabbi Hauer I knew, as my shul rabbi. He was a man of humility, warmth, and deep compassion, whose presence enriched our community long before his rise to national and global prominence.
I first met Rabbi Hauer in the 1990’s, when he began his rabbinical journey at B'nai Jacob on Seven Mile Lane, under the gentle shadow of his esteemed father-in-law, Rabbi Joseph Baumgarten, Z”l., I vividly remember his very first Drasha - July 4, 1992 - delivered with quie...
In the first Pasuk of Parshas Noach, there is a Rashi which calls out for deeper analysis and explanation. The famous Rashi, “B’Dorosav”, quotes conflicting opinions in Chazal as to what the pasuk means when it says that Noach was a Tzadik “in his generation”. One opinion is that Noach was a complete Tzadik. The other view is that Noach was only a Tzadik “B’Dorosav” – when compared to the Reshaim of his generation. This derogatory description even goes so far as to say “Had Noach lived in Avraham’s Dor, Lo Nechshav Klum- he wouldn’t have been recognized as an outstanding individual”. This Rashi raises several difficult issues. First, it is unusual for Chazal to have a disagreement about a fact. Typically when th...
Of every clean animal take unto you seven pairs, איש ואשתו — husband and wife. Of every animal that is not clean, take two, איש ואשתו — husband and wife. (בראשית ז ב)
The Talmud in Sanhedrin (108b) wonders, Is there marriage for animals?
We never find the reference of 'husband and wife' in Torah other than by humans.
Rabbi Shmuel bar Nachmani answers in the name of Rabbi Yonasan: The reference is to those animals with which did not violate the transgression of relations with another species.
Rashi elucidates that although female animals will mate with many males, the animals who were privileged to enter the Ark were only those who stayed loyal to their species, not coupling with other ones.
Is that the sum total of marriage, simply stayi...
We had the great honor of marketing a lovely apartment in Jerusalem’s Sha’are Chesed neighborhood for the estate of Yehuda Avner. Standing in Avner’s office and viewing numerous photos of him with leading world leaders felt like I was taking a stroll through the history of the State of Israel.
You might recognize the name Yehuda Avner, as he wrote a wonderful book called “The Prime Ministers: An Intimate Narrative of Israeli Leadership.” Avner was secretary and speechwriter to prime ministers Levi Eshkol and Golda Meir, and adviser to prime ministers Yitzhak Rabin, Menachem Begin and Shimon Peres. In these roles, he was privy to many conversations of historical significance, some of which are mentioned in the book. One can tell that Avner was a magnifice...
Baltimore, MD - Oct. 24, 2025 - Jars of SUN Q Cauliflower in Brine and SUN Q Mild Giardiniera, produced in Turkey and imported by Quartet USA Inc. of Jersey City, NJ, bear an unauthorized STAR-K symbol. Corrective action is being taken.