The words vacation and planning are used together so often, you probably thought they are synonyms. According to The Travel, a new poll shows that the average American spends 200 hours annually simply daydreaming about a vacation. That works out to about 24 full working days! In fact, of those studied, a whopping 82 percent of the people in the poll revealed that they daydream about vacations. 

Vacationing properly requires a lot of planning (and of course, daydreaming). On average, people spend 20-30 hours on pre-travel planning. There is so much talk about planning vacations, and indeed, planning vacations is vital and necessary for the vacation to come to fruition. Even more, studies have shown that the sheer anticipation of the vacation – through the intense and exhaustive planning – actually provides more long-term happiness than the vacation itself. Simply incredible. 

In Parshas Masei, the Torah tells us that the Jewish people traveled a total of 42 times throughout their time in the desert. I was thinking about this concept of vacation planning in the context of אלה מסעי בני ישראל – these are the journeys of the Jewish people, and it occurred to me a stark difference between vacationing and journeying. 

 You see, a vacation is something that you plan; a journey is something that G-d plans and you experience. Perhaps, you have heard the quote, “Man plans, but G-d plans better.” This is the message of the 42 journeys and encampments of the Jewish people: We should know, as much as we hope and plan for how our life is going to look and play itself out, at the end of the day, we know that G-ds plans are a lot better than our plans.  

Of course, we “plan” to a certain extent, but at the end of the day, we realize with full faith and belief that G-d is the Travel Agent of our lives and He knows which route is best for us. He picks our journey and leads us on specific roads to travel. He tells us to take this pit stop and that scenic route. He guides us to that mountain to climb and to that river to swim across. He tells us to avoid that area due to danger and to take that beautiful path instead.  

Millions upon millions of Americans spend billions of hours planning and daydreaming about their vacations, about how it is they can get away and escape the reality of their lives. Do not misunderstand, of course vacationing is important and necessary, however, from the overall perspective of life, imagine if we can live a life where we are actually enjoying reality, and not trying to get away from it.  

My friends, that is what a life of true devotion and connection to Hashem looks like. It is not a vacation; it is a journey. It is G-d’s plans that we get to experience. Let us realize that our journey of life – which our Travel Agent plans – is our handcrafted pathway to living life to our personal fullest and experience the joy and beauty of living life in a way that breeds, growth, meaning, passion, and happiness.

Have a holy Shabbos!